Saturday, July 31, 2010

Getting there

The invitations are out (mostly). The plane tickets have been booked. So much for the wedding is done and yet the to-do list still seems endless. Tiff has been extraordinary. Her trip to Ohio for her shower ended up with several decisions finally made. I am so grateful for all she is doing. It amazes me how much there is to getting a wedding planned. I now understand why there is an entire occupation just to plan these things. There are some brilliant moments of victory and excitement. Those are the times that make the endless questions that make no sense more bearable.

On the other hand, it has continued to reinforce how much I love her. Despite several ideas throughout my life as to what I thought my wedding would or should be like, I have come down to the simple desire for one thing. I just want Tiffany there and to say yes at the right moment.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Rain

Sometimes, just sitting in the rain seems to be the best cure-all. It washes away the stresses of everyday to me. The air smells good, the world looks fresh. Not sure why, but it has always rejuvivated me. Perhaps it's because it is still one of those sensations that can not me artificially replicated. Perhaps it's simply pure. I only know I am always glad to see those dark clouds outside.

Monday, July 19, 2010

Can Not Connect

Ever forget your cell phone when going out? There's that initial panic/frustration. Then, at least for me there's a small relief in knowing no calls can be made or received for a while. It's a nice reprieve to me. As of late I have been wanting to forget my phone intentionally. That would defeat the purpose though. Why stage an accident when I can just be an adult and acknowledge I don't want to deal with it? After all, my cell is for my convenience not anyone elses.

It's been more than just the phone though lately. I've actually been enjoying the wi/fi outage at our aptartment for the last week. No Facebook status updates unless I was hardwired, no Netflix watch instantly on the PS3. It's kinda been nice. Hell, I haven't even been checking emails at work that much. That is probably less good though. Heh.

Personally, I have never been that need it or hate it with all these tech conveniences, so finding myself uninterested has been new. It's just been nice to unplug.

Saturday, July 10, 2010

wedding, wedding, wedding

Tiffany is in Ohio right now, enjoying her bridal showr. Slowly, plans are coming together. It is amazing how many components go into a wedding. I am very glad it has brought Tiff and I closer in the planning. I still stand by my statement that the most important things to me are to have her and our loved ones there and for her to say "yes" at the right time.

Good coffee and dancing would be pretty ok too.

Friday, July 9, 2010

Interesting and sad

Courtesy of MoveOn:

You might have heard this: BP is so well connected in Washington that even after being cited for 760 different safety and environmental violations, the company still got environmental waivers for the Deepwater Horizon rig that's now destroying the Gulf.1

But BP's not alone in using its DC influence. Check out the list below of other companies' outrages—then pass it along. And be sure to sign our new Fight Washington Corruption Pledge to support 3 key measures that will protect our democracy from corporate lobbyists!

http://fightwashingtoncorruption.org/?id=21534-10464590-yCEkq5x

1. Exxon Mobil made billions in profits, and yet paid not one dime in federal income taxes in 2009.2

2. The 2005 energy bill had a little known provision, commonly called the Halliburton Loophole, which exempted natural gas drilling from the Clean Water Act. The result? Water so contaminated that you can light it on fire.3

3. Massey Energy was cited more than 2400 times for safety violations in its mines, but chose not to fix potentially lethal problems because low penalties meant it was cheaper to simply keep paying the fines. This spring, 29 miners were killed in an underground explosion at a Massey mine in West Virginia.4

4. Michael Taylor was the FDA official who approved the use of Monsanto's Bovine Growth Hormone in dairy cows (even though it's banned in most countries and linked to cancer). After approving it, he left the FDA—to work for Monsanto. Until last year, when he moved back to the government—as President Obama's "Food Safety Czar." No joke.5

5. Internal Toyota documents outline how the company was successful in limiting regulators actions in the recalls last year—saving hundreds of millions while the death toll continued to climb.6

6. GE and its lobbyists—including 33 former government employees—have successfully lobbied Congress to override Defense Department requests to cancel a GE contract to work on a new engine for the Joint Strike Fighter jet. GE will need $2.9 billion to finish the project.7

7. Top executives at 9 top banks including Citibank, Bank of America, Goldman Sachs, and Morgan Stanley paid themselves over $20 billion dollars in bonuses just weeks after taxpayers bailed them out to the tune of 700 billion dollars.8

8. During the waning days of the Bush administration, officials responded to a long-term lobbying campain by pre-empting product liability lawsuits for dozens of whole industries. They bypassed Congress entirely and rewrote rules ranging from seatbelt manufacturing regulations to prescription drug safety.9

9. Sunscreen manufacturers including Johnson & Johnson and Schering-Plough, in the interest of profits, are opposing an FDA proposal requiring full reporting on sunscreen labels. The New York Times just confirmed that current SPF ratings don't even measure sun rays that cause cancer.10

10. BP—a company with a record of 760 drilling safety and environmental violations—was granted safety waivers in order to operate the deepwater drilling rig that ultimately created the worst environmental disaster in US history.1

Mad yet? Sign the pledge here and we'll pass your name on to your member of Congress, and ask them to Fight Washington Corruption too.

http://www.fightwashingtoncorruption.org/?id=21534-10464590-yCEkq5x

Thanks for all you do,
–Ilyse, Robin, Milan, Amy and the rest of the team

Sources:

1. "BP's latest plan succeeding, but may make spill worse," Newsweek, June 2, 2010.
http://www.moveon.org/r?r=88880&id=21534-10464590-yCEkq5x&t=2

2. "GE, Exxon Paid No U.S. Income Taxes in 2009," ABC News, April 6, 2010
http://www.moveon.org/r?r=89262&id=&id=21534-10464590-yCEkq5x&t=3

3. "Why is Dick Cheney Silent on the Oil Spill?," Newsweek, June 10, 2010
http://www.moveon.org/r?r=89263&id=21534-10464590-yCEkq5x&t=4

4. "Other Massey Mines Showed A Pattern Of Violations," NPR, April 13, 2010
http://www.moveon.org/r?r=89264&id=21534-10464590-yCEkq5x&t=5

5. "Monsanto's man Taylor returns to FDA in food-czar role," Grist, July 8, 2009
http://www.grist.org/article/2009-07-08-monsanto-FDA-taylor/

6. "Toyota tried to cut costs on recalls," Los Angeles Times, February 22, 2010
http://www.moveon.org/r?r=89265&id=21534-10464590-yCEkq5x&t=6

7. "GE vice chairman openly challenges Gates over F-35 fighter jet engine," The Hill, June 17, 2010
http://www.moveon.org/r?r=89266&id=21534-10464590-yCEkq5x&t=7

8. "Bankers Reaped Lavish Bonuses During Bailouts," The New York Times, July 30, 2009
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/07/31/business/31pay.html

9. "Bush Rule Changes Curtail Rights of States, Consumers," Wall Street Journal, October 15, 2008
http://www.moveon.org/r?r=89267&id=21534-10464590-yCEkq5x&t=8

10. "UVA Reform: It's Not PDQ," The New York Times, June 23, 2010
http://www.moveon.org/r?r=89268&id=21534-10464590-yCEkq5x&t=9

Monday, July 5, 2010

This sums it up



"The iPhone 4 vs. HTC EVO video making the rounds has gotten 1.7 million views, but when Best Buy found out it was their employee that made the video, they weren't so much amused as angry.

Corporate asked them to take the video down, but the employee Brian Maupin declined, saying that it didn't mention Best Buy anywhere. (It also didn't mention Best Buy in the description either.) But Best Buy suspended him, and now might be fired, claims NBC Action News."

Anyone in any form of customer service can relate to this. Sady so true.